It is paramount that a mother continues with the bond between her and the child since the baby is already used to this right from the womb. There are two types of this though, the secure and the insecure attachment.

Feeling secure and attached to the mother is one of the best things that could ever happen. This kind of secure attachment will later allow the child to grow into a person with high self esteem and trust. On the other hand, the baby that does not enjoy this kind of bonding with the mother ends up being insecure and leading to other negative social issues. Childcare experts always give this advice because they know how important it is for both the child and the mother.

You might ask how this strong bond is created. Well it start with the mother taking good care of herself when expectant by making sure she gets enough sleep and proper support. It is true that if the mother is restless and irritable the baby feels it. Later in life, the child will still face this same insecure attachment to the mother.

Again when the baby is born, the mother should get enough rest to enable her feel relaxed and happy when nursing the baby which enhances the kid's attachment to her.

Mother should have ample time to bond with the baby because during feeding, or rest time the mother gets enough chance for bonding with her baby.

Babies bond well with their mothers when their needs are responded to effectively and in a timely way. They can also bond well when they are fed regularly and not allowed to remain hungry and agitated because they would end up being insecure.

Good mothers take advantage of their playtime and feeding time to bond with their babies. Mothers get to know the needs of the babies and their feelings by facial expressions and behaviors; meet those needs and form a lasting and loving bond with them.

There are hardly any parents who do not love their babies, so they try to do their best to meet their long and short term needs. This will later lead to firm and permanent loving attachment between them and their children. Isn't that what every parent wants in life? Of course it is, and there's no better time to start striving for this than the very beginning of your special child's life. That is exactly what you'll be able to do here. Good look through the entire process, and most of all, enjoy this priceless time in their lives.